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Love affirmations to attract healthy love

Attracting love starts with believing you deserve the kind of love you want. These affirmations help you release old heartbreak, stop chasing people who can’t meet you halfway and make room for a relationship that feels safe, kind and steady.

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30 affirmations to attract love

  1. My heart is ready for a love that stays.
  2. I am easy to love exactly as I am.
  3. I release the fear of not being chosen.
  4. Love is not something I chase; it is something I welcome.
  5. My heart heals and stays open.
  6. Someone is looking forward to meeting me.
  7. I release old heartbreak and make room for joy.
  8. I attract people who are kind to me consistently.
  9. My heart knows how to trust again.
  10. I invite affection into my everyday life.
  11. I am open to being adored.
  12. I let go of proving my worth to be loved.
  13. I am no longer afraid to want more.
  14. I release the need to earn affection.
  15. My heart opens a little more each day.
  16. I am worthy of gentle beginnings.
  17. I am not too much; I am enough.
  18. I am becoming magnetic through self-respect.
  19. I attract emotional maturity.
  20. I am open to being surprised by someone wonderful.
  21. I attract partners who respect my boundaries.
  22. I let go of the fear of being alone.
  23. I attract a love that grows slowly and lasts.
  24. Affection comes to me naturally.
  25. I attract kindness by being kind to myself.
  26. I trust that the right connection will feel easy.
  27. My heart is healing and expanding.
  28. I choose love that lets me stay myself.
  29. I am worthy of soft, ordinary love.
  30. I attract a love that supports my dreams.

These are 30 of the 200 affirmations in this category of the Shine app: one for every day of the month.

How to use these affirmations

  1. Read them when you catch yourself replaying an old relationship.
  2. Pair an affirmation with a small act of self-respect, like keeping a boundary.
  3. As you repeat the words, imagine how a healthy relationship feels: calm, warm and consistent.

Questions and answers

Do love affirmations work?

Affirmations can’t make a particular person love you, but they can change how you show up: with more self-respect, clearer boundaries and less fear of being alone. Those changes make it easier to recognize, and choose, a healthy relationship.

Get a new affirmation every day

Shine puts a fresh affirmation on your Home Screen widget and sends you one in a daily reminder, at the time you choose.

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Shine affirmation widgets on the iPhone Home Screen