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Affirmations for hard times

When life is heavy, you don’t need forced positivity; you need something honest to hold on to. These affirmations acknowledge that the pain is real while reminding you of the strength that has carried you through every hard day so far.

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30 affirmations for strength on difficult days

  1. I have survived every one of my worst days.
  2. My strength shows up when I need it most.
  3. My pain is real and it is not permanent.
  4. Healing is not a straight line, and that is okay.
  5. I let myself grieve what I lost.
  6. I do not have to be strong every minute.
  7. I can carry sadness and still find small joys.
  8. I let people help me carry this.
  9. I survive what I thought would break me.
  10. I am not behind; I am healing.
  11. My scars are proof, not shame.
  12. I keep breathing, and that is enough for now.
  13. This will not last forever.
  14. My heart is bruised, not broken.
  15. I do not need to explain my pain to anyone.
  16. I honor how hard I have been trying.
  17. My resilience grows in the dark.
  18. I release the pressure to heal quickly.
  19. I let the tears come; they are cleansing.
  20. My body is carrying me through this.
  21. I have been here before, and I got out.
  22. Every quiet morning is a small victory.
  23. My grief is proof that I loved.
  24. Better days are still possible for me.
  25. I am becoming someone who has been through it.
  26. I am not defined by what happened to me.
  27. This is hard, and I can do hard things.
  28. I release the shame around my struggle.
  29. Peace will find me again.
  30. I take comfort in small, simple things.

These are 30 of the 200 affirmations in this category of the Shine app: one for every day of the month.

How to use these affirmations

  1. Choose the gentlest affirmation on the list. Hard days are not the time for big promises.
  2. Read it again whenever the day feels long, even if that is many times.
  3. Share one with someone you know who is going through something difficult.

Questions and answers

What should I say to myself during hard times?

Try something that is both honest and hopeful, like “This is hard, and I can do hard things” or “My pain is real and it is not permanent.” And please reach out to people you trust, or to a professional, if you are struggling.

Affirmations are a self-care practice, not a substitute for professional help. If you are struggling, please reach out to a doctor or a mental health professional.

Get a new affirmation every day

Shine puts a fresh affirmation on your Home Screen widget and sends you one in a daily reminder, at the time you choose.

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Shine affirmation widgets on the iPhone Home Screen